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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 08:43

How does one succeed in life?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

That's it for today.

What discoveries in AI research have changed our understanding of intelligence evolution?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What I need from you?

If you’re an atheist, what would be your motive in spreading atheism, and why would you care what others believe?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

What are the strangest parts of The Bible?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What do you think of casting Emma Watson as the next James Bond?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What's the gayest thing you have experienced on an only boys sleepover?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Can you explain the meaning of "mint condition" in relation to antiques or collectibles?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Is it better for 2nd generation Western Muslims to marry someone from their parents' country or a western Muslim who was born and raised in the West?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Can the right person make a narc want to change their ways? Is love that powerful? Has anyone seen this or experience it?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Procrastinates a lot.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why is dating so frustrating and difficult for a guy?

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why do North Indians, living in Bangalore, not bother to learn Kannada?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Ask yourself:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Why do Indian parents force their kids to do stuff?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Family scapegoats with years of healing: what events or thoughts precipitated your full acceptance of your family's narcissistic dynamic? Can you share your inner thoughts as you reached it? How do we know when we have reached full acceptance?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Republican Trump is a billionaire, president, won't be held accountable for multiple felonies, and pretty much has whatever he wants. So why is he always whining and crying about stupid, pointless stuff? Is he incapable of happiness?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What is your craziest college sex story?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.